The Best Traditional Anniversary Gifts by Year, Because You're Going to Have a Long Life Together

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When you first get married, your life is a blank slate — hence the traditional first anniversary gift of paper. Those plain white sheets symbolize the blank pages on which you'll write the story of your lives together. According to the list of modern gifts, the first anniversary gift is clocks, for a similar reason: you two have all the time in the world.

1st Anniversary: Paper

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The traditional color of a first anniversary is yellow or gold, and the "gemstone" is gold, too (even though that's obviously a metal, not a gemstone). And, for that first-year bouquet, the traditional first anniversary flower is the simple carnation.

1st Anniversary: Paper

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As the anniversaries go on, the materials get sturdier. Cotton is used for second anniversaries because it's both soft and strong, just like your union. (The modern take is china, for the same reason — tough but fragile.) Also, the way that cotton is woven together represents the way that your lives are now forever intertwined.

2nd Anniversary: Cotton

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The color for the second anniversary is red, and so too are the flower and gemstone. The flower is the cosmos, and the gem is the garnet — both come in a variety of colors, but look gorgeous in deep red hues.

2nd Anniversary: Cotton

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Leather: It's stronger than cotton, but still really flexible. By this point, three years into your marriage, you've probably been through a few ups and downs that have tested your strength, and come out the other side even heartier. The modern third anniversary gift is crystal or glass, which is similar to china in that it can last forever, but is still very breakable. 

3rd Anniversary: Leather

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The color is white, so the corresponding gemstone is pearl. The flower, on the other hand, is the brilliant yellow sunflower.

3rd Anniversary: Leather

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Why is the fourth anniversary fruit or flowers? Aren't they more delicate than leather? The answer is that, after four years, your relationship has really blossomed, so fruit and flowers are only fitting. The modern anniversary list says four years means you're due for an upgrade in appliances, which, if you're in the market, the 

4th Anniversary: Fruit or Flowers

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Good Housekeeping Institute Appliance Lab can help you find the perfect gift. And while the theme of the year means any bouquet of flowers would be appropriate, the traditional fourth anniversary flower is the geranium. The color is blue/green, echoing the color of the blue topaz gemstone.

4th Anniversary: Fruit or Flowers

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Five years in, you're solid. Solid like wood, the traditional fifth anniversary gift. And, like trees, you're still growing, too. The modern fifth anniversary gift is silverware, in preparation of all the family meals you've shared and will continue to share. 

5th Anniversary: Wood

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(Life is too short to put up with old forks.) Usually the colors of the gemstone and the flower line up, but this year they're disparate: The flower is the daisy, and the gemstone is a brilliant sapphire. Traditional colors are blue and pink.

5th Anniversary: Wood

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You are sweet.  You are tough. So, for your sixth anniversary, you can go in either direction: candy or iron. (We'll take the candy every time, but that's just us.) Or you could take a third route, since the modern guide is catching up to the traditional one: The modern gift this year is wood.

6th Anniversary: Candy or Iron

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Colors also give you a range of choice, as purple, white and turquoise are all appropropriate. The sixth anniversary flower is the calla lily, popular in wedding bouquets, and the gemstone is the amethyst, which is said to protect the wearer from impurities.

6th Anniversary: Candy or Iron

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The seventh anniversary is all about cozying up. Wool is known for its warmth, and copper conducts heat, and the two elements represent the snuggly comfort of your marriage. The modern gift is a desk set, so you can send your warm wishes to your loved ones from afar.

7th Anniversary: Wool or Copper

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The rest of the anniversary may seem black-and-white: The color is off-white or yellow, and the gemstone is onyx. The flower is freesia, which represents faithfulness (no seven-year itches here).

7th Anniversary: Wool or Copper

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The same way your marriage is a union of individuals, bronze is a union of copper and tin — and a strong one, too — making it the perfect eighth anniversary gift. Then again, the modern gift list takes on a much more refined tone, making the eighth year one for linens or lace. The traditional color is also bronze, and the flower is the clematis. 

8th Anniversary: Bronze

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The gemstone is tourmaline, which is versatile because it comes in a range of colors.

8th Anniversary: Bronze

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You, and your marriage has transformed over time. Both willow (wicker) and pottery, the traditional ninth anniversary gifts, are materials that have also undergone a transformation due to the elements and emerged more beautiful. The same goes for the modern gift: leather.

9th Anniversary: Pottery or Willow

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Fittingly, the color of the ninth anniversary goes well with pottery: terracotta. Lapis lazuli is the gemstone, and the flower is poppy.

9th Anniversary: Pottery or Willow

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The traditional 10-year anniversary gift is tin or aluminum, again as a symbol of strength. To be honest, that's a bit of a letdown after a decade of marriage. The modern gift list and the gemstone are in agreement on a present that's a little more deserving of the occasion: diamonds. 

10th Anniversary: Tin or Aluminum

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Time for a ring upgrade? The traditional colors are silver and blue, and the flower is the sunny, happy daffodil.

10th Anniversary: Tin or Aluminum

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Many of the materials in the traditional anniversary gifts have been metal, and as they've progressed, the metals have gotten stronger, symbolizing the growing strength of your bond. The eleventh anniversary brings us to steel, the second-toughest metal in the world. 

11th Anniversary: Steel

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The first is tungsten, which sadly does not make the anniversary list, though you can buy tungsten rings — fitting, since the modern gift for the year is fashion jewelry. If you want to incorporate the eleventh-anniversary gemstone into that fashion jewelry, you'd buy something with turquoise in it. (The color is turquoise, too.) The flower is either the morning glory, or the tulip.

11th Anniversary: Steel

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The twelfth anniversary gifts represent aspects of your relationship other than its strong bond: Linen stands for purity, while silk represents elegance. The modern gift is pearls, which symbolize wisdom. In either case, you're coming up in the world.

12th Anniversary: Silk and Linen

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Pearl is also the gemstone, though it can also be jade, and the colors are therefore oyster white or jade green. The flower is a peony, which has big, round blooms reminiscent of a pearl.

12th Anniversary: Silk and Linen

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Who says 13 is unlucky? Not when you get lace as a 13th anniversary gift, with the delicate, intricate pattern representing how your lives have become inextricably intertwined. The modern gift — textiles — works off the same idea. You're one woven fabric now.

13th Anniversary: Lace

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Even luckier, the 13th gemstone is the bright citrine, and the flower is the chrysanthemum, which often symbolizes royalty. The color is an antique white, just like lace.

13th Anniversary: Lace

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The fourteenth anniversary is traditionally the ivory anniversary, and to that, we say no thank you. You can use the tradition as inspiration to get an ivory-colored gift — the color of the year is ivory, too — or go with the modern gift: gold jewelry. The perfect stone to go in that gold jewelry? Opal, the gemstone for the year, which is perfect for

Hydrocotton Towels in Ivory

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gift-giving because legend says it's unlucky to buy an opal for yourself. The traditional flowers of the year are orchids and dahlias.

Hydrocotton Towels in Ivory

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What better way to toast your 15th anniversary than with some brand-new crystal to hold your libations? Or you can go with the modern interpretation: watches. Or get a watch with a crystal face, and kill two birds with one stone. The 15th anniversary gem and color go hand in hand: the gemstone is ruby, and the color is red. 

15th Anniversary: Crystal

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The flower is roses, so feel free to get a big bouquet of red ones to celebrate such a milestone year.

15th Anniversary: Crystal

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After 16 years, you still have that spark, and you know how to make each other melt. Sounds like this is the perfect year for a wax anniversary gift. The modern equivalent is silver serving pieces, also called holloware.  Do both, and you'll have a beautifully presented table where you can have you anniversary dinner.

16th Anniversary: Wax

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The color is a beautiful emerald green, which coordinates with the peridot gemstone. The flower, on the other hand, is the bright purple and blue statice.

16th Anniversary: Wax

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The 17th anniversary is furniture, a perfect time to look around, take stock and see what parts of your domicile need new home ideas and a design refresh. It just makes sense that both the traditional and the modern gift, then, would be furniture. Get something sturdy, to match the solidity of your bond. 

17th Anniversary: Furniture

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Maybe get something yellow, the color of the year. The 17th anniversary gemstone is carnelian, which comes in a fiery red color that symbolizes bold energy and warmth. And to match it, the flower circles back to the red carnation.

17th Anniversary: Furniture

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Your love will last forever. So too will this durable porcelain, which is both the traditional and modern gift of the year. Porcelain is also made of clay that has been tested by fire and made stronger, just as your relationship has undergone some trials of its own.

18th Anniversary: Porcelain

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When it comes to flowers, though, it's anyone's choice: There is no traditional flower associated with the 18th anniversary. The color, though, is blue, and the gemstone is the sparkling cat's eye.

18th Anniversary: Porcelain

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Bronze is the material so nice, it's on the list twice! It was the eighth anniversary gift, and it's back for the 19th, for both the traditional and modern lists. And there's no better way to show how enduring something is than circling back to it after more than 10 years and seeing how you view it differently. Bronze is also the color of the year.

19th Anniversary: Bronze

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The flower is a repeat, too: Chrysanthemums are the flower of the 19th year, especially ones that come in a bronze color. But the gemstone goes in a different direction, with the cool, blue aquamarine being the stone of choice for this year.

19th Anniversary: Bronze

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You have to care for china, and be gentle with it, or it might break — a good reminder to couples after two whole decades of marriage. The modern list offers a big splurge for the milestone anniversary, saying 20 years calls for platinum. To throw a little color in the mix, emerald green is the hue of the year, and emerald is the gemstone. 

20th Anniversary: China

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The flower is the aster, a star-shaped flower, because you guys are the star of the show.

20th Anniversary: China

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Everything converges for the 25h anniversary: The traditional gift, the modern gift, the color and the not-really-a-stone gemstone are all silver. If there were ever a reason to go all-out on a silver something special, this is it! The only thing that diverges from the all-silver lineup is the flower. 

25th Anniversary: Silver

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The 25th anniversary flower is the iris, a royal flower that symbolizes faith — faith in a long, happy marriage.

25th Anniversary: Silver

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In addition to wisdom, the pearl — the traditional 30th anniversary gift and gemstone— represents serenity, purity and perfection through imperfection. If that doesn't encapsulate a 30-year marriage, nothing will. And if pearls aren't tough enough for you, the modern list returns for another round of diamond gifts.

30th Anniversary: Pearl

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And while the 30th anniversary color is green, the flower is a lily, which comes in different hues, each one with a different meaning: red is for passion, pink is for love, yellow is for happiness, orange is for respect and white is for purity, so choose your bouquet wisely.

30th Anniversary: Pearl

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Coral is a living thing that takes time to develop, just like a long marriage. Like ivory, real coral should be protected and left alone in its natural setting; instead of a genuine coral gift, go faux — or perhaps a beach vacation is in order for this year. You can also take the coral color as an inspiration, since that is the color of the year. 

35th Anniversary: Coral

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Or skip the coral entirely and go with the modern gift, beautiful green jade. And while jade is the modern gift, emerald is once again the gemstone — and this isn't the last we'll see of emerald. And there's no single flower designated for the 35th anniversary, so just go with your favorites.

35th Anniversary: Coral

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The ruby is a symbol of passion and devotion, its color reminiscent of an eternal flame. And 40 years isn't eternal, but it's close enough, and by now you guys have kept the flame going a long time. No wonder rubies are the gift on both the traditional and modern list, and ruby red is the color for the year. 

40th Anniversary: Ruby

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The 40th anniversary flower, on the other hand, is the statement-making gladioli.

40th Anniversary: Ruby

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Let's hope we all make it to 45 years, in order to celebrate with sapphire, the gift on both the traditional and modern list. Sapphire is, of course, also the gemstone, and a fitting one at that, given that the stones stand for faithfulness and sincerity. Sapphire blue is also the color for the 45th anniversary, as is sapphire red. 

45th Anniversary: Sapphire

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And keeping with the theme, the flower is the blue iris.

45th Anniversary: Sapphire

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The couple that makes it to the 50th anniversary is rare, and deserves all the gold in the world.  That's why everything is gold: The traditional gift, the modern gift, the gemstone and even the flower is the yellow rose, in honor of the golden anniversary. Live it up!

50th Anniversary: Gold

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Emeralds and emerald green have made a few appearances on this list already, but why not go for another round? The modern and traditional gift, emeralds symbolize balance, growth, hope, admiration and peace — qualities one is sure to have gained after 50 years. But if you've already exhausted your emerald ideas, some say that alexandrite is the year's gemstone, a symbol of good fortune and luck. 

55th Anniversary: Emerald

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The flower is once again the calla lily, in case you missed it on the sixth anniversary.

55th Anniversary: Emerald

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Even people who aren't familiar with all of the traditional and modern gifts know that the 60th anniversary is the diamond jubilee. (Diamond white is the matching color, naturally.) Why? Because, as Shirley Bassey once sang, diamonds are forever!

60th Anniversary: Diamond

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